5 star hotel. Worth it or nah?

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So….. I embarked on an experiment. Does that extra star or two count in a traveler’s xperience? I have been coordinating several trips for people very close to me and this is an issue that arises repeatedly. Does the quality of the sleep affect one’s overall enjoyment of a vacation. I can’t begin to tell you how many times I hear the question “would YOU pay the extra just for a hotel” I have typically said “ABSOLUTELY!” I got to thinking that it has been an awfully long time since we have stayed at less than a 5 star or equivalent property. I seldom place clients at lower tier properties either. After all why would we chance it? With the BucketListed Signature amenities that come with booking hotels with us, the difference in cost comes out in the wash. We usually get our clients room upgrades, daily breakfasts, a Signature Amenity, early check in AND late checkout as well as a 50 -100 USD credit to spend on food and beverage or SpaūüéČūüéČūüéČ. That being said, some people come to me asking to book ‘deals’ they find that,when complete, the costs add up not simply in inconvenience but in cold hard cash. Those deals don’t end up looking deal like by trip’s end. Sooooo… I decided to remind myself of the hotel experience that one gains by NOT being BucketListed. Here we go. (More to follow)

Windsor Court Hotel – A Review

Property name: Windsor Court Hotel

Where: New Orleans CBD
Street address: 300 Gravier Street, New Orleans, LA
Phone: 504-523-6000

Rates for Reviewed Suite: Approx US$ 475 –¬†675¬†per night based on seasonality.¬†

According to verbiage on the hotel site: “A haven for the discriminating traveler, Windsor Court offers a touch of England in the heart of New Orleans. Guests enjoy the food, jazz, history, architecture, and the sultry sensuality of New Orleans, while also experiencing the luxury, superior service and privacy of Windsor Court. This newly renovated, award-winning property boasts 43 deluxe guestrooms, 213 suites and 60 club level accommodations that include access to our exclusive club lounge. All accommodations offer private balconies or bay windows overlooking the Mississippi River or the city skyline. Hotel amenities include a fine-dining restaurant, two lounges, gift shop, a boutique spa and an outdoor heated swimming pool.”

Windsor Court Hotel

Windsor Court Hotel

Windsor Court Lobby
Windsor Court Lobby

We travelled to New Orleans for Mardi Gras 2016 and put the above verbiage  to the BucketListed test.  Here is our experience:

Check in was smooth. The bellmen/doormen met us and collected our luggage promptly. There was a short queue but immediately when we walked in to the beautiful lobby, a receptionist who was across the room came over and offered to assist us at a separate desk. He efficiently ensured that our Suite was available and that our special Signature Amenities courtesy of BucketListed Travel* were explained and provided.


Windsor Court Hotel Lobby
Windsor Court Hotel Lobby

We had an excellent Balcony Suite 310 that provided us with views of the parade route on Tchopitoulas. Though partially obscured by the tree canopy, it enabled us to see much of the activity and we could go down for a closer view of anything that caught our fancy. We were riding in a Krewe ourselves so catching throws (beads) was not a priority. Despite being right on the parade route, we were not inordinately disturbed by the festivities (and they were LOUD). In addition the suite is directly infront of the elevators. That could be room for concern but we were absolutely undisturbed by hall noise the entire trip. The suite was well kept and housekeeping was very good.

Suite at Windsor Court Hotel
Suite at Windsor Court Hotel

Service in the Bars was excellent despite the hubbub of the season. Many people alternated between the game set up on big screens in the Lobby Lounge and Mardi Gras parades outside on Super Bowl Sunday. Despite the competing interests, the staff in the Bar and the Manager acquitted themselves well. The one minor downfall was the Grill Room restaurant. One evening the entrees were inconsistent with previous experience. Service recovery was swift and the entrees were removed from our bill without question. Otherwise the restaurant offerings were also well above average with particular kudos to the Prix Fixe lunch menu (meat and three) replete with a martini, sorbet and a delightful amuse bouche of crab and citrus. Heading out to our floats at 330 am on Fat Tuesday, the bell staff was not out front. Not to worry, in a jiffy someone stepped out to call us a taxi without us having to search around. Check out was smooth. Overall I would say this hotel is well deserving of its reputation for anticipatory service. Nicely done.

This Property meets our criteria to be BucketListed and received five circles from us on a Trip Advisor review. BucketListing is our highest praise and means we would be inclined to recommend and book this hotel for our clients, and will likely stay here again.

Disclosures : BucketListed Reviewer pays for ALL lodging and expenses and is not incentivized in any way by a reviewed establishment. We may be provided amenities* based on being clients of  BucketListed Travel, an agency- member of Signature Travel Consortium.

*BucketListed Amenities

Continental Breakfast for two daily
Lunch for two, once during stay
The following amenities were subject to availability at time of check-in: Upgrade

For booking assistance inquire at bucketlistedtravel@gmail.com or Book online with www.bucketlistedtravel.com


Intercontinental Singapore – Hotel review


Property name: InterContinental Singapore
Where: Bugis Junction neighborhood
Street address: 80 Middle Road, Singapore 188966
Phone: 65/6338-7600
Rates for Reviewed Suite:  Approx US$500 per night

This Property meets our criteria to be BucketListed and received four circles from us on a Trip Advisor review. BucketListing means we would be inclined to recommend and book this hotel for our clients, and likely stay here again.


I am usually inclined to root for the underdog and love both an overcomer and an overachiever. This is why I grew to like the Intercontinental Brand. Many of their properties are unsung heroes; they excel in service but I am beginning to realize that they often need work on the physical plant.

Now on to the Intercontinental Hotel- Singapore in specific. I am a tiny bit disappointed with the Intercontinental Singapore. Not because it was bad but rather that they have the bones of EVERYTHING they need to be truly stellar. The staff is great and get the concept of service, the location is prime, attached to a convenient shopping mall and right across from the light rail. They have all the ancillary services in check, and clearly Management is engaged. The club lounge had ample presentations at breakfast and at the cocktail hour.

I was really prepared to love this hotel but I couldn’t. Here’s why. It really is time for a complete renovation. The carpet in the halls are soiled and threadbare, the walls are sorely in need of a coat of paint and there should be a general spit shine through the entire property.

We stayed in a Shophouse Suite which was beautiful and a perfect reminder of Singapore’s¬†Peranakan culture, which dates back to the 17th century. ¬†This history which may be overshadowed by Singapore’s¬†relentless march to modernization.¬†Peranakan decor was evident and there was ample use of¬†mosaic glazed tiles and ¬†intricately carved cabinetry. These suite’s¬†high ceilings and large windows gave light and airiness to the space. ¬†Our Suite’s French¬†windows opened onto the indoor mall pavilion adjacent to the hotel. It really was lovely.

The downside of that particular suite is there were small but persistent maintenance issues with the room along with the smell of mildew.

Overall, this beautiful property put me in the mind of an aging rockstar who continues to tour. There are all the signs of a history of greatness but the definite knowledge that there are a few missed notes. Does this mean that I wouldn’t go to see the show? Of course not; but as the Beatles sing “I long for yesterday”. In much the same way, I will be back to this fine hotel but will long for what it really could be with a few tweaks.

Contact us for booking assistance at bucketlistedtravel@gmail.com or through the website at www.bucketlistedtravel.com



See the Caribbean the BucketListed way

A FANTASTIC overview of countries in the Leeward Islands of the Caribbean as seen from a Clipper ship. The trip afforded “off the beaten path” views of St-Maarten, St. Martin, Nevis, Dominica, Iles des Saintes, Guadeloupe, Antigua and St. Baarths. They were all lovely and quite a few became #BucketListed for different reasons. Antigua provided one of the best shrimp dishes I’ve had. I am still working on duplicating the recipe in my home kitchen. St. Barthelemy was sophisticated yet still had an accessibility to it. I imagined the South of France in decades past. Dominica was rustic and charming and the people were warm and friendly.

If you have “done” the Caribbean and think you know it, I would suggest a view from a slightly different vantage point.


See the Caribbean in a new way

Bucketlisting. – Creating, curating and fulfilling ‘The Travel List’

What qualifies for that category? It’s not the cost, nor is it necessarily how popular an experience is. To be on my bucket list there needs to be an element of exclusivity or specialness combined with some sense that I will be happy and fulfilled by seeing that place or participating in that activity. There is no point in filling my must see concerts or my must visit places list with a bunch of cliches. Some people neeeeed to be photographed holding a pyramid in their hand. Not I. Do I need to see the pyramids? Absolutely! I just don’t need that particular twitter bait pic. ¬†I could also opt for the pyramid building cultures of North, South and Central America over Egypt. Chichen Itza, for me was special.

So is it about checking out other lists and cosigning those? Nope. There is little impulse associated with my choices. There is, however, an awful lot of serendipity involved. Oftentimes, the true bucketlisted experience is not what I went expecting to receive. The best ‘once in a lifetime’ experiences are sometimes offshoots of the main event. I love it when that happens.

So we are narrowing down on my bucket list creation process. Essentially,¬†I need to walk away feeling “I’m so glad I did that in my lifetime”

Some of the most highly touted experiences hold no magic or attraction for me. I can’t imagine what is coveted about being at a “must see” sight surrounded by thousands of ogling, sweating tourists all of whom, just like me, have been seduced into misery by the promise of awesomeness. Being knee deep in a throng of people with selfie sticks protruding, holds no charm. (At least not for me)

The issue, however, is that there are some very popular sites or experiences which are in fact magic! They live up to and often exceed the promised hype. So how to deal with the hordes? How do you actually get into the Nasrid Palaces of the Alhambra, in Granada, Spain when there are a specific limited¬†number of tickets allotted daily? What happens when those tickets are ‘finished’ for months BEFORE you even began looking? Do you go all the way to Spain and not see it or do you stay home and mope? ¬† I will give you one alternative in another¬†post. Stay tuned.

In the interim check out one our bucket listed experiences.

Ballooning in Cappadocia, Turkey
Ballooning in Cappadocia, Turkey
Ballooning in Cappadocia, Turkey
Ballooning in Cappadocia, Turkey


Failure is strength training for success.

” Aim for perfection but be satisfied with excellence.” I read this quote and it stuck with me. It reminds me that many spectacular successes begin in abject failure. Perfection is not possible for man but if we learn from the times we fall short, we can apply those lessons to our continued efforts.

This thought, that failures do not define or limit our potential, is very powerful. If every failure is looked at as a vehicle to learn something new, it means even our failures are successful. At minimum, we learn what not to do next time.

I find that life is all about perspective. I begin each and every day stronger and more purposefully because of the mistakes of yesterday. By the time I awaken In the morning, the results of yesterday’s experiments in living are clear. It is fresh in my mind what I did and the outcome is crystal clear. If I didn’t succeed, I ¬†know exactly what NOT to repeat and simply have to figure out which new direction to take. I love looking at errors as strength training. ¬†With every failure, I am building the muscles of success.


Whatchu doin?

I’ve been asked this question multiple times since I created this blog and then seemingly¬†stopped writing. Rest assured, I am nowhere near done writing but guess what? I have been doing exactly what my blog advocates. The point of life I feel, is to see yourself through a filter created ¬†solely by you and¬†to live up to the¬†expectations, you set for yourself. Most importantly it is to experience life¬†with everything to learn and nothing to prove.¬†10993417_543827372426114_3634576448454632708_n

I have been doing my most important work as a wife and mother. ¬†I have been listening carefully to Spirit and doing only the things that feel right to me, when the timing also feels right. ¬†That can sometimes mean doing absolutely nothing. That also means I haven’t posted for a while, but I’m baaaaack.



So when you want to know “Whatchu doin’?” My answer is “walking on solitary beaches in Jamaica, topping up¬†my Vitamin D levels in the sun, drinking coconut water from the shell. Going to eat fish at Hellshire in the middle of the day, in the middle of ¬†the week just because I can; Driving to Ocho Rios and back just for the sheer joy of it. Headed back to snow in Nashville and loving every minute of that too. I’ve been taking the moments and making them count. I’ve been living a bucket listed life.”


You can’t win if you don’t play

Nope. I am not talking about the Lotto, though that adage applies there as well. We all have dreams, goals and desires, many of which just languish on the shelves of our minds. We treat our lives like a non-participatory sport; constantly running up and down the sidelines cheering but freeze when asked to get in the game.

Wanna lose weight? Absolutely. Well what have you done about that particular wish? How many half completed diets have you been on only to opine “oh that doesn’t work!”. The question is; was it the diet or was it you? Diets¬†only work if you do. Ditto for exercise. Starting off the year with a brand new gym membership does nothing for your activity levels unless you actually get up and go.

In much the same way we point to our vision boards or journal entries as evidence of goals. There is significant power in visualizing what we want. It distills our desires into focus. The very act of putting that focus into words or pictures can recruit our unconscious to continue working toward it even when we have rested. The operating word, however, is rested. That implies we have put in the WORK and have paused only to regroup and refresh. Visions are just dreams deferred without active work.

Since we are still at the beginning of the year, this would be a perfect time to use the SMART technique we discussed in a previous post to put some focus to our dreams.

Why not break out the scissors, the glue and the poster boards and get to visioning your year in pictures. Cut from any magazine pictures, articles or even ads that speak to you. Print off blog posts or web based graphics that energize and inform. Go wild with the creativity, instill into your boards the energy that you would like to imbue into your lives this year.

Once you have that board made, review it, edit if you must then post it in a prominent place that catches your attention every time you pass. Most importantly, Get in the game! Get to work on making reality out of the pictures in your mind. Remember “Success is not a Movie. Sitting back and watching brings you first to Intermission, then to closure in someone else’s life, NOT yours.”

Success is not a movie
Success is not a movie